Who's the Baby? Who's the Boyfriend?

This is a story for anyone facing life's hardships, paralyzed by fear and uncertainty, unsure of how to move forward. What do you do when everything has fallen apart, and you feel utterly alone, unable to see a way out of the darkness? How do you survive when, after a difficult divorce, you are left carrying the entire burden of responsibility?

We start the book at the moment of departure from a marriage, examining the reasons behind this difficult choice. This chapter also reflects on the aftermath, questioning whether life has improved after the decision to leave. Nicole's ex-husband, Robby, continues to harass and create chaos, emphasizing the challenges of starting over and the necessity of summoning the strength to embark on the journey of survival.

The narrative explores moving forward after significant life changes. Readers will see how Nicole uses various strategies to persevere even when her life reaches rock bottom. With the support of mentors and a strong sponsor from Al-Anon, she begins to guide her life in the right direction, driven solely by the wish to create a better life for herself and her children.

Life continues to challenge Nicole, as she loses her home and must navigate these changes. She learns to outline her objectives and actionable tasks to achieve them, such as seeking help at home and at work. Nicole's growing desire for love leads her to Sid, a married man who initially seems to fill the void in her heart. However, she soon learns to prioritize self-care and focus on her own needs and desires.

The theme of taking action despite fear and uncertainty becomes profound when a coworker's unexpected death teaches a powerful life lesson. This exploration contrasts living in fear with living in faith, while Sid's actions reveal the truth about their relationship compared to the fantasy Nicole had envisioned.

The book then explores the inevitability of change when "Life Happens," highlighting the importance of being open to unexpected events, both positive and negative. Nicole's sons, Jaron and Dylan, encounter their challenges, and her real estate career starts to show promise, offering a glimpse of hope. However, when things appear to improve, Nicole self-sabotages by falling back into old habits and resuming her affair with Sid.

We explore the significance of having a "Plan B" for navigating life's uncertainties. Nicole learns that a backup plan is essential, especially after years of being left high and dry by Robby. Another tragedy at work shakes her world, prompting her to reevaluate her relationship with Sid and focus on serving others rather than succumbing to her passions.

The story highlights the importance of mentors in personal and professional development. Nicole learns that both good and bad mentors provide valuable lessons. Life begins to improve as she purchases a home again, but another heartbreak with Sid shatters her romantic dreams. This pivotal moment teaches Nicole to prioritize self-love and further engage in her career while managing her teenage sons. Embracing her Higher Power helps her navigate these new challenges without the support of her long-time Al-Anon sponsor. Watching Nicole's transition from fear to faith illustrates the profound impact of overcoming fear to achieve success and fulfillment. Fear often serves as a barrier, but Nicole's journey demonstrates the power of faith in pursuing one's dreams and goals. Nicole reaches the finish line of survival and begins to thrive. Her role with her sons evolves from caretaker to advisor. She contemplates how to move out of survival mode, discover her true self, and embrace the next chapter of her life, stepping out of her comfort zone and welcoming change with open arms.