Recover: Rebuilding trust after the shock of betrayal

What happens when your partner has an affair and betrays you? How do you cope with the shock, terrible hurt and anger? Can you ever rebuild trust, and your relationship, after the pain of infidelity? Do you want to?

Andy and Susan's relationship is deteriorating. They are both busy with work and family life, and show very little interest in each other. Susan spends her evenings getting drunk, whilst Andy goes online and starts chatting to Diana...

Recover is an emotionally engaging parable sharing the everyday exchanges between Andy and Susan in the painful aftermath of his affair. Readers can follow both of their perspectives, and Diana's, as the story unfolds, which allows rare insight into the minds of all three parties and the opportunity to relate to what they are each going through.

Woven from over ten years' experience of working with couples, Neil Wilkie uses this powerful story to share The Relationship Paradigm, his unique approach to working with couples who have drifted apart, or even come apart. He guides Andy and Susan through the key elements of how to start listening and understanding each other again, sharing his wisdom and strategies as they come to the crucial decision of whether to get back together or not.

Neil Wilkie is a qualified psychotherapist and expert in relationships. He believes one of the greatest gifts anyone can have is a loving, fulfilling and mutually supportive relationship with another person. Recover is the second in the series of The Relationship Paradigm books which present his unique model for relationships.