Find Me Somebody to Love

The opposite of addiction isn't sobriety. It's connection.

For too long, we've wrestled with addiction as a battle fought in isolation - a war against cravings, a struggle for willpower. But what if the deepest roots of substance use lie not in a moral failing, but in a profound human yearning for belonging, security, and connection that was never truly met?

Find Me Somebody to Love shatters conventional wisdom, revealing the invisible threads of attachment theory woven into the very fabric of addiction and recovery. Drawing on cutting-edge research in psychology, neurobiology, and relational therapy, this groundbreaking book exposes:

· The Hidden Language of Craving: How substances become "substitute attachments," offering a false sense of security and solace when genuine human connection feels out of reach.

· Your Attachment Blueprint: Uncover how your earliest relationships shaped your vulnerability to addiction and continue to influence your patterns of relapse and recovery.

· The Power of Earned Security: Discover how, even after years of struggle, healing is possible by forging new, secure bonds - with yourself, with others, and in therapeutic relationships.

· Recovery as Relational Repair: Learn how to re-weave the broken threads of connection, moving beyond mere abstinence to build a life rich with authentic intimacy and lasting well-being.

Whether you're a person in recovery, a clinician, or a loved one seeking to understand, Find Me Somebody to Love offers a compassionate and revolutionary perspective. It's time to stop chasing fleeting highs and start building the secure connections we were all born to find.